7 Step for Vietnamese Engagement ceremony

Most couples know asked ritual traditional ceremony for the wedding in India, but not everyone is aware of the ritual process. So the Star newspaper summarizes the stages will take place during the ceremony eat asked to young people not embarrassed and confused.

1. Preparation before the ceremony

– Two families will discuss and agree the number of trap (common trap in the North is odd number, 3, 5, 7 to 15 depending on the casket, while in the South, the trap is an even number). The trap must have black front, the envelopes for the boys prepare to burn incense on the altar girl. The number of black envelope ceremony may vary depending on the number of altar of the bride or the bride wedding challenge.
– Depending on the number of trap, the boys team to prepare young men young calf to trap and women’s girls team also prepared the corresponding number to shutter.
– Two select a time to celebrate beautiful girl asked to eat at home. To the correct date has, union representatives boys will hit the road to the bride.
– To ensure the girl punctual, brother’s family needed to calculate the travel time as well as the obstacles on the way. The best man should go before the ceremony about 30 minutes early to avoid traffic jams and have time to prepare.

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The boys will bring casket, fruit tray to the bride in engagement ceremony.

– When to now beautiful, delegations eat man arranged team hierarchy in the family, led by grandparents, parents, groom, concrete casket team and related members.
– After two hello, male calves casket Group will give holidays the shutter female team to support tray of fruit in the house.
– The male calves casket team and the the female calves casket team will give red packets, pay for each coast. These include room prepared by the two boys will prepare bags and taken to the men’s team, the girls will prepare some women how corresponding gave teams. Payment conditions should be two agreed in advance.

3. Water offers, chat

– After discussion trap, two-family house would sit drinking, talking. First, the bride’s family will present the representation in the ceremony. In response, the boys also introduced the representative of the family.
– Representatives of the boys will be told why and introduction to what the boys can do to wheels.
– Representatives of the girls stood up to thank, accept food casket asked of the boys.
– Mother of the groom and the bride’s mother would open the casket.

4. Launched two brides family

-The bride’s family lets the groom to the bride’s room to welcome the family to greet the boys (before the groom to welcome the bride does not appear in the feast asked).

– The bride will be to greet and pouring invite groom’s family, by contrast, the groom will pour water invite the bride’s family.

5. Burn incense on the altar of the bride

– After the launch bride, mother of the bride will be taken from the tray of five fruits a number of articles and ceremony to bring up black altar of incense ancestors, ancestors.

– The bride’s parents will take the bride and groom to burn incense on the altar girl.

6. Discuss wedding

– After worship ancestors, the two parents will agree to the bride and the wedding date and time.
– During that time, the bride and groom invite the guests and posed for a souvenir photo with everyone.

7. The bride kickbacks for boys

– The girls will split map kickbacks for boys and return the tray trap. Note, when dealer kickbacks map not be used hand shears that have torn, kickbacks map to an even number (usually 10 gifts) and the girl returned casket wheels to tilt the lid, not closed.
– The bride’s awarded kickbacks map for the guy and ask for permission to leave.
– After you have end feast questions, the girls will invite all the members present at the to use intimate dinner. In the case of the boys away, the girls will also invite the boys in for dinner too. However, this must be agreed in advance for the girls to plan and prepare welcome thoughtful.

Typically, the feast asked lasts between 30 minutes to 1 hour. But not too complicated but this ritual is seen as the traditional engagement ceremony wedding indispensable in Vietnam, so even though the modern bride and groom still need to comply with as well as to comply with the order feast asked to wedding goes smoothly.

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